how to make a girl fall in love with you

How To Make A Girl Fall In Love With You

There’s no magic formula to cure a broken heart, that’s for sure. On the flip side, there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.

What you can do is increase the odds you will get the girl you want by following these expert and practically proven tips.



Girls like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.

Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it or she’ll close the door fast.


Who doesn’t like a nice compliment now and then? Just please don’t give her fake praise or she will kick your butt to the curb fast. Make sure the compliment is genuine and sincere and not too deep.

If you overdo it, I can guarantee this pointer will backfire big time.

Flatter her a little and she will reward you handsomely.


Think of this like you might a cheerleader. You need to show her you will be there to encourage her on and support her in her daily battles. This doesn’t mean you have to agree with everything she does and says, that would make you a pushover puppet.

However, you should show her you appreciate and respect her for her life choices. That’s just plain magical in the dating game.


This is where you are going to capture her attention and rock her world. Too many guys today seem to forget their manners. When you treat a lady properly, it will never ever go out of style.

Open the door for her. Pull out her chair. Give her your coat on a chilly evening.

When you show her she’s worth being treated specially, you will be squeezing your way into her heart for all the right reasons. Give it a shot! You’ve got nothing to lose.


I know this one isn’t so easy considering the technology we’ve got to our fingertips. If you are serious about showing this girl you deserve to have her fall in love with you, then you need to keep all eyes on her.

This means putting your phone away and definitely not watching other girls walk into the room.

You will come across as a prick if you can’t give her your full attention. The choice is yours.


This can come in all sorts of different shapes and forms. You can tell her face to face that you really enjoy hanging out with her. Another route is to drop her a text or email to make sure she knows that she’s on your mind.

Or you can drop her a line on social media. You just want to make it crystal clear that you like being with her. She needs to know that if you are going to be successful making her fall in love with you.


You need to stand out and in order to do this, you’ve got to take care of the little things. Give her flowers or some sort of surprise just because. Don’t wait until a special occasion to show her how you feel.

This will help to make her feel loved and appreciated and that’s a direct route to making her fall in love with you. End of story.


Truth be told, if you are leaving your dirty socks on the floor and the sink filled with your dishes, you are killing the romance.

Girls like it clean and that means you need to make every effort to clean up after yourself and not leave it to her, no matter what she says.

You should know by now that girls say one thing and mean another more often than not.

Like it or lump it because that’s just the way it is.


There’s just something about a man that sings. Girls go crazy over it. Guess there’s just something about a bad boy rock star. This doesn’t mean you have to be a rocker to get a girl. But if you’ve got some singing skills in your back pocket, that’s a good thing.

If not, just show her you are passionate in some other genre. Passion is perfect when combined with love.


When you show a girl you can be light hearted and funny, you are one step closer to getting her walls down so you can jump in.

Laughter is the best medicine and when you show a girl you can be funny, or at least try, you will get into her heart and mind fast.

So let loose and get a little silly if you are serious about getting the girl for keeps.


The very last thing a girl wants is a high strung man that just can’t play it cool. If you show her you’ve got the innate ability to diffuse spicy situations and shrug off the small things, you are going to show her straight up she’d be crazy not to fall in love with you.

Just trust me on this one please.


You are certified crazy if you don’t think this girls friends and family aren’t going to influence her decision to open up to you or not.

If you can get in the good books with her loved ones, she will get the encouragement she needs to fall in love with you.

Let her family and friends work for you in your quest. Having an outside source tell you that you should be with a guy really is magical.


If you don’t have anything nice to say about her friends and family, make sure you keep it to yourself. One of the worst things you can do is dish the people she loves and is connected with.

Negativity gets you nowhere fast, just saying.


The last thing you want to do is show this special girl that you have nothing but her. That makes you out to be needy and insecure and that’s definitely not what you want.

Sure, it’s important that you show her she is special to you. But you don’t need to make her your everything just yet. Take the time to hang out with other people and that alone will make her fall hard for you.

That just forces her to work for your attention and that’s needed in the relationship world.


Life is often way too fast. We are always so busy wanting to do more in less time. Take a step back from time to time and slow the pace. Turn the music up and give her a slow dance whenever you feel the urge.

That’s just romantically thoughtful and she will love it on every level.


When you are on time, you are showing her that you respect her time. Just don’t show up late for a date, no matter what. Of course there are the inevitable that pop up and make it pretty much impossible for you to be on time, but they should be the exception to the rules.

Do whatever it takes to make sure you are punctual and that magic will unfold.


When you make the time to introduce her to your family, you are showing her that she is special to you. And when you are trying to make her fall in love with you, that’s golden.

Show her off to your family and be sure to treat your family with love and respect so she can see how you will treat her in the long run.

Makes perfect sense.


When you take the time to surprise her, you will win your way into her heart. Shoot her a message at work to let her know you are thinking about her. Leave her a voicemail or note in her purse to make her smile.

This just reiterates the fact you are a thoughtful man that deserves her attention.


This goes without saying but when she is feeling under the weather, you need to show her you’ll take care of her. Make her soup or bring her a box of Kleenex. Do whatever you need to in order to help her feel better quickly and get back on her feet.

This is the sort of thing that shows a girl it’s about time she fell in love. Hard and fast works.


This one is a given. If you are serious about getting a girl to fall head over heels for you, then you need to make certain you never leave the house unless you are showered, shaved, and smelling like a million bucks.


It’s natural to feel nervous around a beautiful girl. Just chill! If you allow your anxiety to get the best of you, then you might as well write the love thing off now.

Drop your guard and muster up the courage to just go talk with her. Trust me, it will be appreciated.


More often than not, a pretty woman is witchy first when a guy gives them a compliment. Think of it as a defensive shield that’s essential to keep the pricks out.

Think about it for a minute. When a girl is hit on by oodles of guys, she’s got to figure out a way to deflect them right?

Just turn up the charm and show her you are more interesting than all the other guys. She’ll bite if it’s meant to be.


No doubt a woman’s friends will naturally protect her from any man they believe is bad news. This means if you are ugly, creepy or just plain rude, you don’t stand a chance.

So you’ve either got to get into the good books fast or bring some eye candy with you to keep them oogling. Cute guys should do the trick keeping them busy while you go in and at least get her number.

Time to step up to the plate and whack a homer if you really want to make that girl fall in love with you.


This is a tough one to master but where there’s a will, there’s a way!

You need to both play hard to get and show her you like her. When you balance this tightrope perfectly, it will help you win the prize.


Be careful here because girls tend to naturally over analyze text messages. In other words, they put them under the microscope and often make them into more than they really are. You’ve got your work cut out for you.

Think of all the texts she gets each day and your focus is to make yours stand out. Open your mind and think outside the box. Keep it short and sweet and memorable. Do that and your headed in the right direction.


No worries, I’m referring to texting. When your girl shoots you a text, you need to make every effort within reason, to send one right back to her. Think tennis here.

The length of your shot and the timing is critical. Pay attention to every shot you take if you want to end up winning the girl.


If you want a woman to love you, then you are going to have to show her. What better way than to take the time to create a super romantic date?

Think of what she likes and appreciates and build from there. Make sure there’s some flirting and fun and lots going on so boredom has zero chance of getting into the picture.

Nail this one and you’ll get to nail her too, if you haven’t already.


If you want to keep the love momentum rolling, you’re going to need to set up more dates. Don’t expect her to give it up or become totally comfortable with you until at a least the 3rd or 4th date.

In other words, you’ve got to work for it. And when you give her something to look forward to down the road, you are showing her you’ve got a vested interest in her and that’s magical.

Keep her busy and you are the only one she will have time to focus on. Need I say more?


Of course this depends on where you are in building your relationship. Something you don’t ever want to forget is you need to make amazing love to her. This means lots of kissing and cuddling and not running out the door shortly after.

If you do that, you’ll make her feel cheap and used and there’s seriously no love in that scenario.

Slow and steady wins the race. The longer, the better.


If you are serious about making this girl fall for you, she needs to be the one pushing to know where you stand. When she asks this question, it’s time to make sure you solidify the fact you are her boyfriend and you want to take your relationship to the next level.

Step by step you will get there if you play your cards right.


No matter how hot you think she is, everyone has imperfections. If she gets a little emotionally crazy, just deal with it. When she decides she doesn’t want to wear makeup, you better support her.

And no matter what, you are best to ignore your innate need to flirt with other women. Just don’t please.


This is a tough one for many guys because it makes you vulnerable and opens the door to possible rejection.

Usually, it’s the girl that says the L word first but not always.

Put it all out there and tell her you love her and she’s going to fall head over heels in love with you.


If you want a woman to fall for you, then you need to gain the power hand in the relationship. Keep in mind if you are chasing her like a weak puppy, she will get bored with you fast.

You need to get her chasing you a little and your love will be golden.


The guy needs to be the one that starts and finishes communication. She needs to be the one reaching out to you and you can get back to her here and there.

Make sure she knows she isn’t your everything. But on the flip side, she still needs to feel important.

Be elusive but don’t overdo it. If you aren’t ever there for her, there’s no way she can fall in love with you.


You don’t have to answer every question she asks. In fact, when you are a little vague or mysterious, you are going to draw her in for more. When a girl’s curiosity is peaked, she will look for ways to peel your layers and gain more connection.

You can take it from here.


When you can become her addiction or better yet obsession, you’ve just sealed the deal. Never forget that girls are great at playing the game so you need to be wary and cautious.

In order for you to create addiction, you need to drop off the radar from time to time and master the art of slipping back in unannounced.


We all like a challenge. Keep in mind, as humans, we always want what we don’t have. Use this to your advantage.

Don’t be afraid to challenge her and be a challenge. It will help you make her fall for you pronto

After Anambra state governor, Charles Soludo visited Nnamdi Kanu in DSS custody

 After Anambra state governor, Charles Soludo visited Nnamdi Kanu in DSS custody 

as part of his hunt for peace, Simon Ekpa who has his own armed ESN militia for which he keeps raising money and leads a group known as the 'Auto-pilot' which claims to be agitating for Biafra, made a live broadcast threatening fire and brimstone against Soludo. Less than 24 hours later (yesterday, Sunday 15th), mayhem was unleashed on major parts of Anambra state:

Onitsha federal housing, 33 and GRA came under attack by Ungun Known Men. Idemmili North L.G headquarters, PHCN and Magistrate court were set afire while a sitting house of Assembly member representing governor Soludo's own constituency was kidnapped. 

At this point, we just have to tell ourselves the truth:

What is going on in the Southeast especially Anambra state IS NO LONGER BIAFRA AGITATION. IT IS PURE TERR0RISM. And governor Charles Chukwuma Soludo MUST TREAT IT AS SUCH. Simon Ekpa is simply a job man working for some interest to destabilise Anambra state. He doesn't really care about Biafra and neither does he care about Nnamdi Kanu. He is simply using Biafra agitation as a cover to ply his ev!l trade.

Another uncomfortable truth we have to face here is, Simon Ekpa is pursuing a certain dark agenda against Anambra as a state. If you can't see this, you really haven't been paying attention. 

In the entire Southeast, there is no governor that is more Fuulani-friendly and anti-Biafra than Governor David Nweze Umahi of Ebonyi state, Simon Ekpa's home state. But how many times have you heard Ekpa attack Ebonyi state or the governor the way he does Soludo and Anambra??

As earlier as 2017, at a time most Igbo people were scared to be linked to Kanu, Soludo, as a member of a foremost Igbo Think Tank, Nzuko Umunna to which I belong, led a delegation made up of prof. Chidi Odinkalu, Tony Nnadi , Law Mefor et al to visit the IPOB leader in Kuje prison on behalf of the Think Tank group. They thereafter addressed a World Press conference categorically telling the FG that while the Igbos agree that Kanu is not above the law, they would also not sit back and watch him treated beneath the law. Since assuming office, Soludo has pandered to the agitating groups more than any other Southeast governor. He has called for Kanu's release. He has even visited him. And remember, Soludo was not in power when python dance happened so he couldn't have been a part of the governors who mismanaged the Biafra agitation

So why exactly is Simon Ekpa so fixated on Soludo and Anambra state? The answer is simple; Ekpa is not interested in Biafra or Kanu's release. In fact, he wants Kanu to r0t in jail so he could take over. For him, THIS IS PURE BUSINESS. USING NNAMDI KANU'S OWN PLAYBOOK AND BLUEPRINT of violent rhetorics, puerile propaganda, paranoia and foolhardiness of insisting on self-destructive path which majority of the mob interpret as being CONSISTENT, the Ebonyi-born finnish ex-soldier has almost succeeded with his soft coup against IPOB leadership led by Chika Edoziem and Emma Powerful. Now, majority of the mob who saw the agitation as a class warfare and would love to see everything destr0yed so we could all start afresh, now listen to him. And with his own armed ESN and a radio channel, it appears his coup is almost complete. Now he gets to collects donation directly from diasporan Igbos WHO ARE MAINLY THE ONES FUNDING THIS VIOLENCE thinking they are supporting Biafra and still collect from his real masters.

A betting man would bet that having seen Soludo's intimidating plans to transform Anambra, some outside interest may have hired Simon Ekpa to destabilise the state and make sure the governor is never allowed to focus on development. As it happens, I am a betting man. Remember, Ekpa is a politician in Finland. Matter of fact, he contested the last election in that country. After IPOB repeatedly cancelled the Monday sit-at-home and even Nnamdi Kanu himself spoke against the sit-at-home through his lawyers, it was the same Ekpa who continued to insist it must go on despite the unmentionable cost in human and material resources Igbos have suffered as a result of that moronic policy. It was Ekpa who was against the Anambra election even after IPOB saw reason and reverse its 'No-Election' order. The k!ll!ng of INEC staff member in Imo was hailed by Ekpa and his Autopilot. 

What else do we need to know that this Simon Ekpa is actually working against the collective interest of Ndigbo???

- Charles Ogbu





MEMORISE:  Moreover he said, I am the God of thy father, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. And Moses hid his face; for he was afraid to look upon God. Exodus 3:6

READ: Genesis 17:1 -8

1 And when Abram was ninety years old and nine, the LORD appeared to Abram, and said unto him, I am the Almighty God; walk before me, and be thou perfect.

2 And I will make my covenant between me and thee, and will multiply thee exceedingly.

3 And Abram fell on his face: and God talked with him, saying,

4 As for me, behold, my covenant is with thee, and thou shalt be a father of many nations.

5 Neither shall thy name any more be called Abram, but thy name shall be Abraham; for a father of many nations have I made thee.

6 And I will make thee exceeding fruitful, and I will make nations of thee, and kings shall come out of thee.

7 And I will establish my covenant between me and thee and thy seed after thee in their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be a God unto thee, and to thy seed after thee.

8 And I will give unto thee, and to thy seed after thee, the land wherein thou art a stranger, all the land of Canaan, for an everlasting possession; and I will be their God.


In the memory verse today, God introduced himself to Moses as the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. In Yorubaland where I’m from, the meaning of the name of a man gives you deep insight into the kind of person that fellow is. Thus, in order to get deep insight into who our God really is, we well be looking at this introduction more deeply for the next few days.

What is the implication of the fact that God is the God of Abraham? It means that He is a God of blessings (Genesis 12:1-3). In Genesis 24:34-35, Abraham’s servant said, “God has blessed my master greatly”. Also, the name “God of Abraham” tells us that He is a covenant-keeping God. Deuteronomy 7:9 tells us that He is a God who keeps covenants and we see that clearly in the case of Abraham because in Exodus 2:23-24, when the children of Israel were suffering in Egypt, the Bible says that God remembered His covenant with Abraham. This was even long after Abraham had died. Thus, in Exodus 3:6-12, God decided to do something about the liberation of the children of Israel from Egypt.

The God of Abraham is the God of blessings. Therefore, if you serve the God of Abraham, then you are entitled to the blessings of Abraham.

Somehow, some Christians are not enjoying these blessings. The reason may be linked to what God told Abraham in Genesis 17:1:

And when Abram was ninety years old and nine, the Lord appeared to Abram, and said unto him, I am the Almighty God; walk before me, and be thou perfect.

God had made a covenant with Abraham for over 25 years, but it wasn’t until Abraham began to walk before God perfectly that it took effect. Genesis 21:5 tells us that Abraham was 100 years old when Isaac was born, just a little above 9 months after God told him to be perfect. Believe me honestly, if you start living holy, the blessings of Abraham will pursue and overtake you. Those ‘little sins’ you still commit will keep on hindering God’s promises from coming to pass in your life if you don’t stop them right away. Those little foxes are spoiling your vine; get rid of them now!




Sin hinders the fulfillment of God's promises in the life of His children.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Ezra 8- Nehemiah 1



1 Standing on the promises of Christ my King,

Through eternal ages let His praises ring,

Glory in the highest, I will shout and sing,

Standing on the promises of God.


Standing, standing,

Standing on the promises of God my Savior;

Standing, standing,

I’m standing on the promises of God.

2 Standing on the promises that cannot fail,

When the howling storms of doubt and fear assail,

By the living Word of God I shall prevail,

Standing on the promises of God.

3 Standing on the promises I now can see

Perfect, present cleansing in the blood for me;

Standing in the liberty where Christ makes free,

Standing on the promises of God.

4 Standing on the promises of Christ the Lord,

Bound to Him eternally by love’s strong cord,

Overcoming daily with the Spirit’s sword,

Standing on the promises of God.

5 Standing on the promises I shall not fall,

List’ning every moment to the Spirit’s call.

Resting in my Savior as my All in all,

Standing on the promises of God.

PETER OBI: The promising candidate and waiting game of would-be supporters


PETER OBI: The promising candidate and  waiting game of would-be supporters

By Chidiebere Nwobodo

"People who stand in the middle of the road get run over"

           Rush Limbaugh 

As at today, if opinion poll is conducted, Peter Obi is the leading presidential aspirant among the declared aspirants in the two major political parties. Yemi Osinbajo could have been competing with Obi on this pedestal but the vice president's ignoble role in the present administration gravely punctured his popularity. He cannot extricate himself from Buhari's colossal failure of leadership. 

Peter Obi's popularity is growing like a wildlife because some Nigerians have started accepting the hard truth—Nigeria is in dire strait; the nation is dithering and tethering towards a collapse, and only someone in Peter Obi's capacity and competence will lead the rescue mission post-2023 general elections.

A lot of enthusiastic Nigerians have expressed readiness to go the whole hog and extra mile to campaign for Peter Obi, only if PDP will give him its ticket. So, Nigerians who are of this school of thought, are sitting on the fence praying that Peter Obi emerges the PDP's flag bearer before they will go full length to market his personality and political ideology. 

Then the million-dollar question is: who is the PDP? The PDP is the leading opposition political party made up of Nigerians. The PDP is not composed of aliens. The delegates and those that influence delegates during presidential primary are not foreigners, but Nigerians as well who read our opinions cum analyses on social and mainstream media. They also have felt excruciating pain of bad governance in the last seven years, like every other Nigerian. 

In essence, if you truly believe in Peter Obi's presidency as what the nation needs today to stop progressing in error and start revolutionary recovery process, you have to get to work now. If Peter Obi's supporters can overwhelm Nigerians with the possibility and practicability of his presidency in solving myriads of woes bedeviling the nation, before the presidential primary slated for end of May, 2022, the PDP, being a party that wants to return to power, won't have option but to join the momentum.

But if you're waiting for Peter Obi to battle the moneybags, of which some of them are veterans in presidential primaries, let me bring you bad news—we will end up having uninspiring cum uninteresting candidates presented to us to choose between the devil and deep blue sea.

Nigerians who have faith in Peter Obi's philosophy of governance, must let the PDP understand that, among its aspirants as at today, only a Peter Obi can motivate Nigerians to go out in the streets to campaign for the PDP and defend its votes to return to power. Peter Obi is not popular with some of the political elite class because he does not believe in sharing government funds.

The political merchants who see every election cycle as opportunity to get slush funds, will never support a Peter Obi to clinch the ticket. To them, politics is their major means of economic survival. So, if you want a Peter Obi candidature, there is no time to stand in the middle of the road—you have to take side now, risk your desired candidate being run over. 

 It is your little support, together with that of others like you, will make the PDP choose Peter Obi as its candidate. And once he emerges as the PDP candidate, the moneybags and the political elite club will key in, because nothing will stop an idea whose time has come.

There is no time to sit on the fence. If you believe in Peter Obi and what he can do for us, our children and generations of Nigerians unborn, the defining moment of great decision has beckoned. Spread the message.

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